Although computers and technology are a wonderful development in the modern world, many parents wonder if the virtual world endangers their children's natural social development. This is a legitimate worry. Some kids spend all of their spare time finding entertainment on the web, playing video games and chatting with online friends. Kids must also engage in real world activities in order to develop well rounded social skills. Parents often have a difficult time convincing kids that this is true. Here are some ways you can pry the kids away from the computer without any objections on their part.

Whether kids will admit it or not, all kids like fun in the company of other kids their own age. The trick to encouraging hobbies for kids that they'll beg you to let them do is to allow them to lead you to the activities they enjoy. For example, if your child has been invited by a friend to an ice skating party and your child wants to go, make every effort to accommodate the request. If you need to drive them, make the time to do so. This may become a weekly activity which provides healthy exercise, fun and a trip off the couch and into the real world. If your kid enjoyed swimming in grade school, but hasn't participated in years, suggest joining a swim club at the teen center or Y.

Real world hobbies for kids that develop social skills needn't be sports-related. Playing chess, sewing, wood working and art are all good examples. Whenever kids have interactive social relationships with their peers, such activities help build confidence, self esteem and a better understanding of themselves and others.

Misunderstandings that may occur in online relationships are generally not resolved satisfactorily. Kids tend to simply shut that individual out. Real world hobbies for kids which require face to face conversation are more likely to be resolved with some diplomacy and compromise. The real companion is more important than someone they can't see and don't know personally.

Yet other good hobbies for kids include painting, making models, stamp collecting and crafts. Hobbies which involve using their hands to express themselves or create something artistic are excellent ways to let kids see that technology doesn't hold all the answers. Taking summer classes and workshops puts them in a group of their peers.

Although your kids will not likely give up their net activities and virtual friends, they'll also be unlikely to give up their new hobbies with kids in the neighborhood.

Don't try to push kids into activities they don't enjoy. There are enough they will enjoy, if you give them half a chance and a gentle, low-profile push in the right direction.